If you consider yourself a strong man, I'm sure you heard the admonitions to be a good father to your children. I of course agree with that.
But there's more.
Be a good Husband today. Work hard to stay married. Work hard to be a good leader to your wife and family.
Be smart enough to figure out a way to make things work.
Dedicate yourself to doing the right thing ultimately.
Don't let the "perfect" be the enemy of the good. That means make sure you accomplish your main priority: be a happily married couple.
This takes planning. This takes intelligence. This takes determination.
Many have done it. So can you.
Focus on success. Do all you can to make the world, this country, your town, your community, your family better.
Most will focus on the problems, the inequities, the obstacles, fine.
You need to end up focusing on you, your wife, and your family.
The best way to be a good dad is to be a good husband.